BY MFANUFIKILE KHATHWANE
MBABANE – Deputy Prime Minister Senator Thulisile Dladla has issued a strong call for the revival of dialogue and unity within families, urging communities to rebuild spaces where men, women, and children can openly share knowledge and guidance to curb the growing scourge of gender-based violence (GBV).
Speaking during the official opening of three newly built houses at Bulandzeni on April 20, 2026, the Deputy Prime Minister stressed that restoring communication within households was critical in addressing social ills that continue to tear families apart.
She encouraged families to deliberately create platforms where fathers engage meaningfully with their sons, passing on values, life lessons, and guidance traditionally shared in Eswatini society.
“There must be spaces where men sit with their boys and talk. This is how we build responsible men and reduce violence in our homes,” she said.
Senator Thulisile Dladla reflected on how modern lifestyles have disrupted traditional systems of mentorship and learning within families. She noted that in the past, men gathered esangweni to discuss issues affecting them, while women convened egumeni to address matters specific to their roles. These settings ensured that children grew up well-informed and prepared for adulthood.
However, she said today’s reality has shifted drastically.
“Families now spend evenings watching television, engaging on social media, or reading newspapers. While these are important, they have replaced critical family conversations, leaving many children growing up without proper guidance,” she said.
The Deputy Prime Minister warned that this gap in communication contributes to misunderstandings, unrealistic expectations, and ultimately conflict within households.
She cited practical examples held on radio, where approximately 200 men gathered to reflect on challenges affecting them. Among the key concerns was financial pressure within families, particularly when expectations exceed what breadwinners can afford.
“Some tensions arise when families want lifestyles or education that are beyond their means. This creates strain in marriages and affects peace at home,” she explained, adding that both men and women must work together in understanding and managing family realities.
The Senator commended ongoing community-driven initiatives that are working to rebuild positive masculinity and mentorship among young men.
Leading among these is Kwakha Indvodza, widely recognised for its impactful programmes aimed at shaping responsible men. Through initiatives such as the Lihawu Male Mentoring Camp, Babe Locotfo (The Good Dad Campaign), and Litfuba Ngelakho, the organisation continues to address critical issues including masculinity, fatherhood, health, and social responsibility.
Recently, the organisation held its Learn 2 Earn graduation at Ludzeludze Inkhundla, where young men underwent intensive training in personal branding, CV writing, job interview preparation, and business development. The programme also tackled mental health awareness and sexual reproductive health—areas often overlooked but crucial in shaping balanced individuals.
The Deputy Prime Minister highlighted that such programmes demonstrate the importance of equipping young men with both practical skills and emotional intelligence.
“The commitment shown by these young men proves that when given the right opportunities, they can become agents of change in their communities,” she said.
Other organisations, including MenEngage eSwatini, Swaziland Action Group Against Abuse, the Uthini Na Mtshana Mentorship Programme, and the Eswatini National Youth Council, continue to play a pivotal role in mentoring boys and promoting gender equality.
Dladla emphasised that addressing GBV requires a collective effort rooted in families, communities, and institutions working together.
She concluded with a call for a return to foundational values of communication, respect, and shared responsibility within households.
“Peace begins at home. When families talk, understand each other, and support one another, we build a nation that is united, resilient, and free from violence,” she said.
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